Helping Wives and Husbands Heal from Betrayal
Find hope and support as you reclaim your peace after discovering your husband's sex addiction, or pornography use. I'm here to offer guidance, tools, and a roadmap to recovery, so you can feel secure, valued, and whole again.
What Other Wives Say
"Your Kindness, support and education offered me not only a place to feel sane and safe when I felt so confused and alone— but also you gave me hope to improve. You did this by teaching me about boundaries, about what I deserved and reminded me I am my own person— and I get to do it in my own way and own time."
Joanne, Main, USA
"If you had told me 6 months ago, that my marriage could be better than ever, more close, more connected, more safe, I would have said it was impossible. Even setting and enforcing boundaries seemed like an impossible task. But Pam helped me to understand that I wasn't being mean, controlling or hard, but that my boundaries were an act of love. Now my children are learning to set boundaries and I couldn't be more proud.
Maria S, New Jersey, USA
"I now feel like a stronger individual because of her. I’ve learned stronger healthier boundaries, learned how to stay focused on my own personal growth, skills for helping my trauma states and just generally how to grow into a healthier person." - J.B., British Columbia
Jeneanne B. British Columbia, Canada
Free Resources to Help You Heal
PODCAST: Listen now - Hope for Wives
The faith based and trauma informed podcast that dives into all things betrayal and comes up for air with hope for all wives struggling with their husband's hurtful behaviors due to their problematic sexual behaviors.
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Links to therapies, support groups, books, groups to bring you up to speed on the recovery journey.
The natural consequences of sex addiction reach far beyond the addict, and touches everyone that loves them. The deception and betrayal felt by spouses, family and friends reaches far, and are difficult to stomach. When you love someone with a sex addiction life can be chaotic and you experience betrayal trauma. The good news is,…
You are so precious and beautiful, and worthy, standing in your own sacred space. Similar to, “If a tree falls in the woods and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?” Yes of course it does, and… If a woman like all of us, is deeply feeling, deeply caring, loving,…
What is Future Tripping? One of the best tools in my betrayal trauma recovery toolkit was how to stay out of worrying about the future. To say I worried, would be an understatement. Rather, I obsessed. I panicked. I triggered over the future. “What if movies” that played in my head about “what might happen”.…
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