I have found this resource to be EXTREMELY healing and a healthy place to learn, grow, find support and most importantly validation.
I'm not crazy. I didn't cause this. I CAN HEAL independently of my husband's choices. I have choices!

I have been suffering for so long and when I found this group I finally found people who got it. I feel that now I am on the road to recovery. Hearing everyone’s story gives me strength , I am not alone. The resources, books and feedback are essential to my healing. So grateful

This group has helped me a LOT! Book recommendations, the positivity, compassion for the addicted, and compassion for ourselves. It has enhanced my healing journey, Wysteria knows her stuff and is so caring and helpful!! Love you Wysteria! Blessings to you and your family. Keep preaching it!!!

Truly a blessing. I have learned so much. I'm truly grateful. My only negative is sometimes, even myself would like some validation instead of just advice. It wouldn't need to be always but maybe before the hard truth of what we may be doing wrong. Thank you for all of your help! 

Honestly, I was quite intimidated of you a year or so ago. I was new to the fb groups and I kept seeing all these posts and comments from this Wysteria lady. At times, your responses were in my opinion, harsh. Fourteen months later, I can honestly say it was my broken heart and bent frame of mind that made me intimidated.

There were times when I was pain seeking and looking for a pity party which you didn’t provide. I see now that often times you are trying to steer people out of unhealthy mindsets and sometimes, that takes some stern verbiage. I have learned more from you than anyone else in all the groups I have belonged to both online and in person. I have grown to admire your strength and courage and it has inspired me to dig deeper to find my strength. Thank you my lady! 

Such exciting news that you have created this space for us affected by sex addiction. I respect your sharing of your recovery so much. I learn so much from you. Yours is the reply I want to read when someone posts their need for help. Thank you so much for being so open with your recovery. I look forward to learning more from you thru all that is being offered on your website. 

For me finding this group was a life changing / saving experience. Since the Dday I thank Higher Power of leading me to all beautiful, brave people I can learn, share, get help and wisdom from. It’s become my daily reading ’helper’. Safe reliable place to share darkest thoughts and happiest moments. Real blessing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💛💛💛💛 

You have given me an outlook on this circumstance of hope and understanding. A different perspective of healing. For myself. For my relationship. For so many things. Often times when you are in the middle of chaos, it is hard to see things clearly. You have helped clear the mud and I am forever grateful for your wisdom that you share in the group. I wish I would have found this years ago

I truly believe that Pam has a gift unlike any other person I’ve met dealing with these issues. She has been given the gifts of compassion, understanding and validity that have helped me through the course of my struggle.

I can definitely say that I would not be as strong and confident about myself and my relationship if I hadn’t reached out to her 10 months ago. If you’re struggling right now because someone in your life has SA, believe me when I say you don’t have to struggle anymore. Take that hard first step and reach out to Pam. Get plugged in to one of these life-changing groups and watch the healing begin.

I met Pam about half a year ago. When I first approached her asking for her help and guidance I was a traumatized and lost human being. I was depressed and having anxiety attacks daily.

I came across her group and asked her personally for guidance and it was the smartest thing I’ve ever done in my life. When you’ve been traumatized to this extent it can feel impossible to get back to a state of “normalcy”

She worked 1 on 1 with me and guided me weekly as well as guidance with her groups. It’s been half a year and I now feel like a stronger individual because of her. I’ve learned stronger healthier boundaries, learned how to stay focused on my own personal growth, skills for helping my trauma states and just generally how to grow into a healthier person.

I can not say enough how highly I recommend her services as she saved my life and helped me gain my sanity back. I will forever be grateful for the things she has helped me with. If your feeling lost and not sure how to gain back your sanity and mental health this is a life saving place to being. You will get the answers your looking for as to the “how”