Welcome to Recovered Peace
A betrayal trauma informed and couple-centered resource for healing and recovering from the effects of your partner's serial infidelity or porn or sex addiction.
Living with a person who has a sex addiction, chronic porn use,
repeat deception, lies, cheating, and broken promises to stop, causes partners to experience very real heartbreak and trauma.
You deserve the best support you can find.
I can help you.
What do you need the most help with?
Pre-work sent in advance. Empowering worksheets and a 2-hour workshop with personalized guidance by an APSATS trained/ Couple-Centered Recovery Model trained betrayal trauma coach to start using boundaries right away. Group meets once on December 18, 2025 at at 4:00pm PT / 5:00 pm MT / 6:00pm CT / 7:00pm ET

Enrollment is OPEN for Clarity and Peace with Boundaries a 4 week practical boundaries education led by Pam Blizzard, APSATS and Couple–Centered Recovery® betrayal trauma coach.
You'll learn how to refocus back on you, respond vs react, create and employ boundaries according to your values and authentic needs for safety and invite safe, deeper connection in something new with your partner.
4 consecutive Mondays, starting December 29, 2025 at 4:00pm PT / 5:00 pm MT / 6:00pm CT / 7:00pm ET

About me:
I'm a spouse in recovery from betrayal trauma, and have committed to walking with individual women and couples on this journey.
I serve as the Director of Couples Care for Choose Connection Academy, a structured educational and coaching program created by Dr. Jake Porter to help individuals and couples navigate relational healing, especially in the aftermath of betrayal trauma and chronic betrayal. It is built on the Couple-Centered Recovery® (CCR) model, emphasizing emotional regulation, attachment-based healing, and trauma recovery.
I have completed the training in the APSATS Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model.
I have completed the Couple-Centered Recovery Model® (CCR) Level 1 and Level 2 Training.
I am a certified Life Coach and NLP practitioner. My groups are secular and all faiths and beliefs are welcome.
Start here if you just found out. Take the free course:
Betrayal Trauma from Sex Addiction Recovery Basics
CRITICAL information you NEED TO KNOW for your safety and potential recovery of your relationship
* Why Traditional Marriage Counseling is NOT THE ANSWER and can be DANGEROUS to you and your marriage...
* YOU'RE NOT CRAZY...
* YOU'RE NOT OVER-REACTING
* Where to start to take action for your empowerment and getting out of limbo....
and more...
Boundaries for Wives of Sexually Addicted and Porn Addicted Men
-this groundbreaking digital course and live support program is now available
Enrollment is now open - act fast, this group fills quickly
Just a few practical things you'll learn how to do:
- Communicate boundaries with love and compassion
- Deal with push-back (expect it!)
- Plan in advance how you will enforce boundaries
- Know how long to enforce boundaries
Learn more about this empowering program now...

PODCAST: Listen now - Hope for Wives
The faith based and trauma informed podcast that dives into all things betrayal and comes up for air with hope for all wives struggling with their husband's hurtful behaviors due to their problematic sexual behaviors.

* If this website, or any part of our private, tightly moderated Facebook Group has helped you, you can encourage me by leaving me feedback here.
I use your encouragement to continue my training and education in recovery from betrayal trauma, sex addiction and relationship recovery.
Links to therapies, support groups, books, groups to bring you up to speed on the recovery journey.
Recovered Peace Blog
“How do I know if my sex addict husband or wife is really in recovery?” Why do we ask this? Because we've been deceived so many times, we can't be sure of what's truth and what's deception coming from a sex addict. Our husbands' or wives' word has lost its worth. A person's actions, is…
Read More...“Providing relationship comforts to an active sexually addicted person, even sober, but not in recovery is protecting their addiction and standing in the way of their recovery.” Also known as enabling. Enabling the sexually addicted person to feel like everything is ok, and normal, when it's not. Enabling the sexually addicted person to continue on…
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