When you (describe specific behavior only, no judgments or assessements of the other person's feelings or thoughts, keep it fact based: I feel (emotions words only here): Sad Surprised Afraid Disgusted Angry Sad Proud Joyful Intrigued Trusting Loving Peaceful Your thoughts on boundaries: How often do you feel safe in your relationship? Always Sometimes Never What helps you feel safe? (Check all that apply) Transparency Consistency Listening Other Submit & Download PDF